Rings are a popular jewelry item and also used in many cultures to signify marriage. But what does the Bible actually say about wearing rings? This article explores the scriptural perspective on rings, their background, and if they hold any special spiritual meaning for believers today.
Rings Not Prescribed in Scripture
It’s important to first clarify that wedding rings are not commanded or even described in the Bible. You won’t find verses discussing ring exchanges at marriage ceremonies or directives to wear rings once married. The marriage union is highly esteemed in Scripture, but rings themselves hold no biblical significance.
God cares most about the inward commitment between a husband and wife, not outward symbols like rings. So the decision whether or not to exchange rings is left up to personal discretion and cultural preference. They are neither forbidden nor required. The Bible is silent on ring rituals.
“Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)
Examples of Rings in the Old Testament
While wedding rings go unmentioned, the Old Testament does contain a few examples of rings in other contexts:
- Signet Rings – Used to seal and authorize documents (Genesis 41:42, Esther 3:10)
- Nose Rings – Worn as jewelry and likely symbols of status (Genesis 24:47, Isaiah 3:21)
- Toe Rings – Also functioned as regular jewelry (Isaiah 3:18)
These ring references always point to literal, physical rings worn on the body. There are no clear symbolic spiritual meanings attached to the rings themselves in these cases.
The most prominent ring story involves Joseph in Egypt. When promoted to the second highest position in the kingdom, Pharaoh puts his signet ring on Joseph’s finger to authorize Joseph’s new governing power (Genesis 41:41-43). This ring served practical purposes to advance God’s plan rather than act as a spiritual symbol.
Pagan Ritual Origins of Wedding Rings
So when and why did people start exchanging rings at weddings? The evidence points to pagan origins.
The durability of unbroken circles symbolized eternal love in many ancient pagan cultures. Materials like bone, leather, and ivory were used to form these early betrothal rings.
As these cultures interfaced, the idea spread that lovers should pledge their vows over a ring. The Romans especially popularized betrothal rings made of metal. Yet the Bible consistently condemns adopting pagan rituals. So an honest look at history should make us cautious about blindly mimicking this tradition without considering its roots.
What Should Christian Couples Do?
Does this mean it’s somehow “unspiritual” or sinful for believers to exchange wedding rings? Not necessarily! The Bible leaves room for personal freedom in these matters.
Couples can prayerfully choose to give rings if their conscience is clear and rings hold special meaning in their culture. But they don’t have to in order to please God or legitimize their marriage.
Above all, the top priority is that Christ is centermost in any marriage, without distracting attention given to lesser symbols. Our identity rests solely in Jesus, not jewelry.
If newlyweds do opt for rings, they would do well to consider inexpensive, modest bands versus lavish, debt-incurring sets flaunting wealth. The fiscal sacrifice and lifetime vow before God takes precedence over fashion.
Moving Forward in Freedom
In summary, Scripture neither forbids nor demands wedding rings. They emerged instead from cultural roots rather than biblical origins.
But when believers submit all aspects of life – even jewelry and apparel – to the Lordship of Jesus, the Holy Spirit guides each situation. There are no rigid rules on issues the Bible leaves to sanctified conscience.
Marriage is honorable before God whether sealed with or without rings. Ultimately rings should not eclipse the sacred covenant between husband, wife, and Christ at the helm. He blesses obedience from the heart, not empty rituals.
So walk forward in the freedom of Scripture, not constricting chains of human religiosity. Focus on a thriving relationship and – ring or no ring – let your enduring love point back to divine grace.
Relevant Bible Verses
Here are some additional Bible passages to contemplate on the topics of rings, marriage, and Christian freedom:
- “Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him?” (James 2:5)
- “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:31)
- “Whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus.” (Colossians 3:17)
I encourage you to prayerfully study biblical wisdom regarding all aspects of love, marriage, purity, finances, and Christ-focused living. God bless you!
